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Last Post: Feb 22 2012 02:30 PMby: 35way

dmantru
dmantru
Member since:
3/30/09

Looking for friends who understand

Mar 01 2011 05:55 PM

Hi, I setup a profile here some time ago and then chickened out. I'm in my mid 30s and have bedwetting issues. Hoping to find some other guys who have similar problems to chat about it. Sometimes I feel soo alone with it but reading posts on this page helps me realize I am not alone and a lot of other guys my age suffer these issues as well. Would be great to hear from whoever is willign to chat or share. Thanks.
Nick
Nick
Member since:
3/31/09

RE: Looking for friends who understand

Mar 02 2011 09:06 AM

Welcome to the board! I'm another Canuck. I have 24/7 wetting issues, not just bedwetting, but I'm willing to chat. Send me a private message on this board if you want tom chat.
Loving life
Loving life
Member since:
7/23/10

RE: Looking for friends who understand

Mar 02 2011 02:08 PM

I know how challenging this issue can be. I've had it my entire life and I'm 54. feel free to send a private message.
shenky
shenky
Member since:
12/19/09

RE: Looking for friends who understand

Mar 03 2011 04:34 PM

Hello,
Welcome to this site.Myself,at 52, being a bedwetter for life finds this site reassurring to see that I am not alone with this problem.Feel free to write me anytime.
dmantru
dmantru
Member since:
3/30/09

RE: Looking for friends who understand

Mar 03 2011 05:43 PM

Thanks guys. I tried messaging you but can't figure out how to make it work. Send me a PM if u are able to. Thanks
JaneF
JaneF
Member since:
11/17/10

Re: RE: Looking for friends who understand

Mar 04 2011 04:24 PM

Hi, dmantru.

When you try to use private messaging, do you get an error message?

Has this happened to anyone else?

Thanks for your help.

JaneF
dmantru
dmantru
Member since:
3/30/09

Re: RE: Looking for friends who understand

Mar 04 2011 10:25 PM

yes ive been getting error messages
ChristyB
ChristyB
Member since:
11/17/10

Re: RE: Looking for friends who understand

Mar 08 2011 07:48 AM

Hi dmantru,

I hope we can help you out. Our technical staff needs more details in order to help resolve this issue. Did you add members as friends that you wanted to private message? If this is not the case, it might possibly be the reason you are getting an error.

We also need to know your operating system, browser, and the exact text of your error message. Any other information that comes to mind can also help in figuring out the problem. By obtaining as much detail as possible, this will help to get this resolved. Thank you for letting us know.
Wesbedwtr
Wesbedwtr
Member since:
12/31/11

Re: RE: Looking for friends who understand

Dec 31 2011 03:09 PM

HI. I am in the same boat as you. New here and need to learn how to effectively use this site.

wesbdwtr
bedwetter789
bedwetter789
Member since:
2/28/11

Re: RE: Looking for friends who understand

Dec 31 2011 08:56 PM

Same here 33 yr old male bedwetter. It is hard at times but I would rather be in a wet diaper than a wet bed.
Patrick
Patrick
Member since:
8/26/09

Re: RE: Looking for friends who understand

Jan 02 2012 03:23 PM

The powers that be might consider a tabbed separate section explaining the site and its technical features to newbies.
billguy
billguy
Member since:
7/20/10

Re: RE: Looking for friends who understand

Jan 04 2012 08:40 AM

In the same boat here. 41 years of age. Perfectly healthy, married with 2 kids. Athletic and active. Bed wetter for years (which is frustrating). However, with the right products, it's much better than waking up in a soaking wet bed (and wife). Obviously, this is a little talked about problem with no other web-sites to have these discussions. Thanks to KC for allowing this discussion board.
Wesbedwtr
Wesbedwtr
Member since:
12/31/11

Re: RE: Looking for friends who understand

Jan 15 2012 04:50 PM

Billguy:

What do your two kids think or say about dad being a bedwetter?
Wesbedwtr
Wesbedwtr
Member since:
12/31/11

Re: RE: Looking for friends who understand

Jan 15 2012 06:21 PM

I've tried messaging too. But it doesn't seem to work. Maybe I am missing something.
LynnK2104
LynnK2104
Member since:
3/31/09

Re: RE: Looking for friends who understand

Feb 01 2012 01:53 PM

It would have been awesome as a kid growing up in diapers to have the Internet. I had many people who didn't understand or assumed I was lazy. I even had doubts myself and wonderd what I was doing wrong. Having this support group is wonderful.
Patrick
Patrick
Member since:
8/26/09

Re: RE: Looking for friends who understand

Feb 03 2012 10:11 AM

My family and friends are as understanding and supportive as they can be; however, they do have limitations. The reality is that, no matter how hard they try, incontinence is as foreign to them as being an astronaut is to me. The folks here walk in my shoes every day; they understand in ways and at a level beyond the ken of my able-bodied family and friends. For this I thank KC, the moderators, and my fellow incons here.
dmantru
dmantru
Member since:
3/30/09

Re: RE: Looking for friends who understand

Feb 20 2012 05:39 PM

Hi its me again, after a long absence. Wanted to thank you all who tried to message me but was unable to. I have setup a yahoo messanger account. Please feel free to message me there. My yahoo ID is darrellallens Thanks.
35way
35way
Member since:
2/9/12

Re: RE: Looking for friends who understand

Feb 21 2012 02:12 PM

I'm also new to this site and new to 24/7 diaper wearing at age 75! How do you private message and how do you upload an avatar or picture?

Thanks
VikkiZ
VikkiZ
Member since:
2/23/11

Re: RE: Looking for friends who understand

Feb 22 2012 09:39 AM

Hi 35way,

To private message someone, simply click on that user's profile (either their photo or the linked username above their photo) and add them as a friend. Then click on Menu at the top right corner of the forum, select messages. You can then compose a message to your friend.

To upload an avatar, click on Menu at the top right corner of the forum, and select preferences. This will bring up the option to select an image for use as an avatar.

I hope this helps!

VikkiZ
35way
35way
Member since:
2/9/12

Re: RE: Looking for friends who understand

Feb 22 2012 02:30 PM

Thanks, VikkiZ. I got the private messageing okay, but please bear with me, ...I am 75-years-old after all, ...I can't find MENU anywhere.

Thanks again for your help.

By the way, how do you become a host?

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