Diaper sounds...

Please comment folks, I really want to know what you all think about this-Can people hear that you wear a diaper? I have to wear a diaper sometimes for my mixed incontinence and tonight I had some looks that meant someone knew I was wearing one. I know I can hear it when I walk and I am just so embarrassed! I wear a tena ultra stretch when needed. I real am very private about my condition and could just die when I have to go in public wearing the diaper. All the comments on the Tena diaper are that they are very discrete...but I can hear it!