Married guys that are age 27 and older, buying depends with your spouse

Hey Guys,

I am 27 years old and suffer with RSD/CRPS and high blood pressure problems. The disease in itself     has taken a toll on my bladder and for a few years now have been wearing depend underwear. As you     may know, it was a big adjustment in life and in my wife's life. Taking all my boxers out of the           underwear  drawer and replacing them with depends, getting dressed in front of my wife, and walking around in my  t-shirt and underwear was a big change. I had to learn self confidence again in not only   the way I felt and looked, but how my wife saw me and thought of me. Guys, how long did it take for  you to feel       conftorable in telling your wife you had to buy more underwear and also having to buy   them while out   in public with you wife? I have done it twice now, and still feel like people look at her with question as  to why she is with a guy like me! We've been married for nearly 10 years now and     have three amzaing kids who    are ages 2-7 years old. All though, my wife has adjusted to this change in life, it doesnt bother her, she loves me for who I am and not my underwear type! Thanks to depend I can still look atractive to her,   and get dressed in front her of her and walk around in just my tshirt and depend and feel just like I did when I wore boxers. Another question for you guys, was this something  you told your family, friends,   sibilings, that you wear depends and if so how did you do it?