So my bestfriends wedding is coming up and I am the the bridemaid. I was happy to find out that the reception will be held at a country club so the restroom will have lockers in them. I already know that I will stock some breifs before hand. I I got fitted for the dress before I became Inncontent so it's very form fitting and very tight. Today when I picked it up from my friends house I got home tried it on and it was obvious I was wearing something. I tried pantyhose but it wasn't enough to conceal. So I figured I needed spanx shapewear. Not have ever had to use shapewear this was all new to me. I figured going to the store would be my best bet and physically tryin them on. \n\nWhen I walked in and picked ou a bunch of choices I wet my diaper really bad but it did not show through to my pants which I was great full for. As I tried on he first option I was surprised how tight they were! I was surprised I didnt have a press out leak. I settled on a very tight very shaping mid thigh shaper because it would cover all of my brief. I knew I needed to change before I headed for home so I found a public restroom at the mall I was at. I figured that this would be a good time to try how the protection would do with my new shapers on so I put them on over my clean breif. I walked around shopping for a little while and found some great deals! \n\nOn my way out I made a ratel mistake! I bought a large drink from one kiascks for my hour ride home. I got all the way home and was turning down my drive and the urge hit! Luckily I was able to make it the the restroom but just as I was ready to undress I decided that I needed to know if I were to flood would my diaper hold if I was wearing a shaper. I went and sat down and held until I couldn't and totally soaked my diaper and I could feel about 10sec into my void the diaper stopped absorbing. I stood up and I started to leak! I ran to the bathroom Nd on the way leaked the rest of my bladder. \n\nI have no ideas. The depend silloutte is my next option but I am scared I will be standing up in front at the church and I will leak.