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  • For urinary incontinence only?

    Yod2 Mar 20 2017 6:07PM

    men's products here are for urinary incontinence only. Is that right?

     

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  • Traveling & Hotels in Diapers

    tim749 Mar 16 2017 1:56AM

    I'm a bit nervous to fly / tsa with my diapers. I will be traveling soon, flying and staying in a hotel my first time since starting to wear diapers again. Should I ask the hotel if they can provide a plastic sheet? And when disposing my diapers should I just leave them in the trash in the room? Any suggestions for diaper management / changing is much appreciated. thank you.

     

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  • PRICE....Are you happy with the price and quanity per box?

    HipGranny04 Mar 13 2017 11:11PM

    I really like the Depends Silhouette Briefs. They feel more like underwear and give my the confidence that I will not leak. The only problem is the price and how many are in the box. When you only get 10 in a box of the XLG, for close to $13.00 that is expensive for someone on a budget. I just purchased your value pack of flex briefs with 15 in the box on sale for $11.99. because I needed a little more affordable pack. This is my first time wearing them and I am very disappointed in this purchase. Can you please make a box of 15 or higher of the Silhouette's at a price point that is more affordable? PLEASE! I am embarrassed enough that I have to buy this product at my age, let alone having to go back every week to buy them.
    Thank you for your understanding.

     

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  • HRT help

    Strype Feb 27 2017 5:45AM

    Hi everyone out there. I recently came out to my loving partner and friends about me being trans and so far it's been great. however I am wondering if any other trans women out there have had the issue of Spironolactone having them run to the washroom every so often due to the medication's side effect. I am also wondering if anyone out there has found a good absorbent garment to use for when one is on the road (as my job usually has me on the roads of the City of Toronto) lemme know!

    Peace out!

    Strype

     

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  • losing control of your bladder while working out

    Dannyphantomfan14 Feb 18 2017 5:19PM

    hello Guys I'm new to this and I'm here for support to help me out with a Issue I have my Bladder control. i been having issues controlling my bladder since the early part of last year and this happens when i work out when i work out i loss control of my bladder and it requires me to use Depends or other brand of Adult diapers and I'm kinda of sometimes shy when it comes to adult Diapers, is it normal to lose control of your Bladder when working out cause when i work out that's the only time i lose control of my Bladder other then that most of the time i have control of my bladder its just when I'm working out i lose control of my bladder is putting too much fluid on the Bladder don't help and also how can i feel my better about myself knowing that i lost control of my bladder and i have to wear Adult diapers please help me out so i can help cope thru this thanks

     

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  • what product works best?

    njdan Dec 25 2016 5:40PM

    Has anyone used the mangaurds?how are they?i usually use womens overnight pads.i am willing to try the mens or womens underware whatever works better. Any suggestions?

     

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  • Mens' Realfit and Fitflex - curious about the diff...

    Hal6666 Nov 10 2016 7:11AM

    I’m just wondering why the men’s real fits are more bulky than the fitflex?

    First off, I love the fitflex's! I started using them almost immediately after having bladder issues, and I was elated to see that such an effective product can be so comfortable and discrete. I'm 42, very active with a 9 year old child and active wife, and I live my life 100% the same as before with these. I'm not trying to sound like an advertisement - just being honest.

    That said, I thought I’d try the realfit's for going to the gym. They’re very good and do look a lot like regular underwear when they’re on - especially from the back - but I expected them to be thinner - certainly not thicker - than the fitflex given the “just like underwear” claim. Although the fitflex don’t look like regular underwear, I actually find they feel more like normal underwear than the realfits do.

    Regardless,, both are great products and certainly make wearing absorbent underwear not a big deal. It's also nice to see that Depend has men in mind when creating these products. I wish I'd discovered them a year ago instead of being stubborn and tolerating wet underwear.

    Thanks!

     

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  • Diapers (Briefs) and Pullups (underwear)

    UnknownWiki Oct 17 2016 5:13PM

    I have a question, I have been incontinence since I was 11, at which I wore diapers, but at that age it was Luvs and pampers, but now Depends sometimes, and Molicare or Tena most of the time, But my question is ive noticed that all of these products are called briefs or underwear, Im not understanding why that is, Diapers are nothing to do with briefs, and pullups are not underwear, why is it people have such a hard time calling them what they are? Why is it a big deal saying diapers? ive never said briefs, when my doctor asks how many briefs I go through a week, I say I dont wear briefs, I wear diapers, I have no problem saying that either, but honestly if people cant handle a simple word, then what does that say? Diapers are Diapers, Pullups are Pullups!!

     

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  • Medical visits/massages

    MrGoose2 Sep 20 2016 9:36PM

    Has anyone had to encounter a visit with a chiropractor while wearing a diaper? They tend to push on your hips etc; and was wondering how you deal with this;since they would probably realize you have one on. Is this embarrassing for you? Also; if you had ever got a massage at a spa where you are not completely all covered? Have they seen this before; and what would you say about it? I wouldn't want to freak anyone out. If anyone works in these areas; please let me know what you think or how to deal with this.

     

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  • The latest Survey thing here

    BeenThereDoneThat Sep 18 2016 12:45AM

    "Would you like it on a boat"

    "I would not like them on a boat!"

    It was a bit like Dr. Seuss from Hell.

    I know they're trying to help, but many questions were about women's stuff that I had no idea about.
    I doubt they'd like, "Oh yes, I love the super smooth silky undergarments."

     

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  • New Protection with Tabs not good

    Yucca777 Sep 15 2016 5:55PM

    My son is a special needs person and for years we have used Depend Protection with Tabs because they were the best diaper we could find. A number of months ago Depend quit making the ones with three tabs on each side and the plastic outer shell. The new Depend with two re-attachable tabs on each side and the flimsy cloth exterior are terrible and extremely inferior to the previous product. We have constant leaks and it makes my life and his much more stressful. Please bring back the previous Depend Protection with Tabs. Please!

     

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  • Depend Should make a Goodnites Trufit style product

    damagedveteran Aug 10 2016 8:38AM

    I think depend should make a goodnites trufit style product I hate going to the gym diapered or wearing a pullup i am very cautious about my waistband and if you wear regular underwear with a pad in the middle should that not prevent painful chaffing cause there are no elastic leak guards also they may be nice to go to work so you dont have to take off your pants to change in a public restroom please consider

     

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