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  • Free Sample

    keoto Sep 10 2017 1:36AM

    Never got free sample. is this a common problem. Why offer samples if never sent? Keon

     

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  • Hip Operation

    KelownaMan33 Aug 7 2017 2:30AM

    I have issues with adult bedwetting and i got a hip thats getting extreme debilitation. I used to use pull ups to manage my bedwetting but have since started using diapers mostly for ease of change. Being only 33 years old and still wetting the bed while staring down a likely hip replacement is a little embarrasing. Thankfully with the use of Depends its somewhat manageble. My question is has anyone on here gone through a major hip operation while managing incontinence? Will I be able to keep using diapers immediately after or does it get in the way? Im worried what the nurses will think? if anybody has insight i would love to know.

    Thanks.

     

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  • night time leakage

    whyme12 Jul 19 2017 11:56AM

    is there any pills availble to help with night time incontance.and how do i cure leakage of urine during sex.

     

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  • leakage

    ronald041063 Jul 5 2017 9:51AM

    I sleep on my side and off and on it leaks through on the side I wear moderate underwear but not enough protection on the side what can I do

     

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  • Has Anyone Else Had This Problem?

    Colorblind Jul 3 2017 2:58PM

    I am a wheelchair bound paraplegic (fully functional from the chest up). I use catheters for bladder drainage but, because I'm prone to frequent UTI's, I often deal with incontinence. I have used Depend men's undergarments for 15 years, but the last 2 packs that I have gotten, when wet, the mesh barrier that holds in the fiber-fill (or whatever it is) has given way in the same location (top right corner) and has released the filling ALL OVER the inside of the garment. This stuff is NASTY!!! It's grainy and sticky, like wet sand, and it is very difficult to wipe away and clean up. This makes cleaning the area for catheterization practically impossible. Accidentally pushing this material into the urethra, via the catheter, will almost assuredly add to the UTI's, if not lead to worse problems. In 15 years, I've never had multiple faulty undergarments in the same pack, let alone multiple packs that were ALL defective (and I buy the big double packs). Secondly, this fiber filling needs to be changed to something cottony or solid, rather than grainy and sticky. Anybody else ever dealt with this?

     

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  • ED and bowel and bladder IC

    bernabei May 27 2017 9:15PM

    How many men who are also IC have ED? I Lost much potency with IC, but it makes it easier to wear the briefs and not leak. Any thoughts?

     

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  • How many bags of adult briefs do people have and w...

    bernabei May 27 2017 9:11PM

    Do you leave bags out for strangers to see through windows?

     

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  • Men's Guards fall off---poor adhesive.

    oldfogey May 23 2017 3:06PM

    I have been using "Guards" since 2013, when I had a radical prostatectomy. Sometimes I don't need them, sometimes I do. As time passed, the company has "improved" them to the point where they will not stay in my briefs---I have to use wound tape to hold them in place. Interestingly enough, the companies making rip-offs of "Depends" don't have this problem, and they stay in place without the tape. Has anyone else had this problem?

     

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  • protection that doesn't wake me.

    bernabei May 7 2017 5:15PM

    I use adult disposable briefs full time for bowel and bladder for several years. Since I have bm accidents often during day and sometimes in public I need a plastic pant to
    keep mess and odor inside. Even so, bm smell is obvious after even a few minutes, especially if moving around or a big morning mess. Also depends on how much you mess. My solution is to wear two pairs of gary briefs in diiferent sizes so that there are two seals around my legs. I can even sit down in the mess and not worry. And on a nightly basis I go while sleeping and don't want to be woken up for a big cleaning operation and change of diaper. Gary pants over my incont. brief means I can sleep for the rest of the night without changing myself. Make sure to use plastic sheets also. And use top briefs like confidry 24/7.

     

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  • Protection series of Depends Diapers

    jaydubyajay Apr 28 2017 2:56AM

    Why can we not get samples of the new Depends Protection style of diapers? ALso, I cannot locate them locally in Alabama

     

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  • URINATING OVER THE TOP OF A DEPEND

    BOBD82 Apr 7 2017 3:36PM

    AT TIMES I AM AWARE OF A NEED TO URINATE AND USE STANDARD HOME/PUBLIC
    FACILITIES. IF I AM NOT WEARING SUSPENDERS IT CAN BE A STRUGGLE TO CONTROL
    THE PENIS WHILE HOLDING MY PANTS UP WHILE PEEING OVER THE TOP OF THE DEPEND.
    BRIEF. MAY I SUGGEST A DEPEND BRIEF WITH A HORIZONTAL SLIT, PLACED WEAR THE BASE OF THE PENIS WOULD NORMALLY LAY, ABOVE WHERE THE HEAD WOULD BE, PERHAPS A FLAP OVER THE SLIT, ALLOWING THE PENIS TO BE DRAWN OUT THROUGH THE DEPEND.
    (ONE WOULD HAVE TO JUST UNZIP AND LEAVE THE BELT IN PLACE)
    OF COURSE THIS WOULD INCREASE THE COST OF PRODUCTION AND COULD BE
    OFFERED AS A ITEM FOR 'SPECIAL OCCASIONS' . I WOULD GLADLY PAY THE EXTRA COST.
    THE MATERIAL AT THE SLIP WOULD BE SUCH THAT IT WOULD 'ON ITS OWN' SQUEEZE
    BACK TOGETHER TO PREVENT ANY LEAKS. AS A RETIRED INDUSTRIAL ENGINEER WOULD
    BE GLAD TO OFFER SUGGESTION AND TEST DESIGNS FOR YOU. NO CHARGE!!!!
    WOULD LOVE TO BE INVOLVED IN THIS PRODUCT.

     

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  • Can you have a bowel movement (poop) in the fit f...

    prayingmantis74 Apr 2 2017 8:31AM

    I am thinking about wearing the fit flex undies for my occasional bladder leaks. I plan to use them primarily for wetting, but i work in a big city, and sometimes get stuck in huge traffic jams. Is it possible, purely out of convenience, to have a bowel movement in the fit flex underwear? Will they contain all of the mess?

     

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